Kathy Horowitz co-facilitates a monthly women’s writer’s group at the Life Center in Huntington. Her work has appeared in The Long Islander, Long Island Woman, Calyx, Blue Unicorn, and Seventh Quarry. Kathy offers freelance writing, editing, and proofreading services. (kahorowitz@gmail.com) • www.kathyhorowitz.com. |
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Now that the celebrations are complete and the holidays are behind us, it is time again to take stock of 2019 while making goals for the New Year. To avoid becoming overwhelmed, it’s a good idea to set small goals rather than one big goal. Perhaps you want to resume an old hobby like crocheting, woodworking, or coin collecting or learn a new one. While doing so, you can take full stock of all that you are grateful for while immersing yourself in these hobbies. As you perform a quiet hobby while sitting by a fire, drinking a cup of tea or cocoa, you can allow your mind to have the freedom to process all that you are grateful for. Even the simple act of looking someone in the eye and thanking him or her for something they did for you, acknowledges them. By doing so, you may even make someone’s day. The sage Mister Rogers once said, “I believe it’s a fact of life that what we have is less important than what we make out of what we have.” Why not include a loved one in one of your goals for 2020? Take a friend or relative with you to a soup kitchen or a homeless shelter. Volunteer your time at a wildlife sanctuary or help clean up the street-side garbage that collects in or around your neighborhood. Make donations of warm clothing that no longer fit your size or your wardrobe. Libraries also collect food and clothing for those families in need. Just because the holidays have ended, doesn’t mean that the gift of giving has to stop. Always be mindful of opportunities for kindness as they help not only others, but yourself as well. |